A couple of weeks ago, we attended the funeral of my brother-in-law's mother. Her children shared some of her favorite sayings. There was one I just loved. And I'm sure, if you are a "reformed people-pleaser" like me, or should I say, a "wanna be, waitin' to be and prayin' to be reformed people-pleaser" like me, you will love it too.
"Don't worry about what people think about you. It's dirt in their little red wagon, and they are the ones that will have to pull it around."